Do you think that you have great or merely passable skills in the sack? One of the most common misconceptions that women have is that when she is part of a couple, it is only up to the man to sizzle up their sex life. But this is hardly the case. If you want to look forward to every time that you and your partner are tangling the sheets together, variety is the key that will spice up your sex life. So the best way to refine your skills in bed is to learn about the basics. Do you know the first thing about giving your man a great handjob (manually pleasing your man)? Read on to find out what the basics are when it comes to manually pleasing your man.
Setting the Mood
Haven’t you heard a lot of women complain about how most men jump to the main event and not spend enough time during foreplay? If you want to learn how to give a great handjob (please him using your hands), you shouldn’t be the get-him-hard-and-pump-him type. Naturally, you need to set the mood first as you would if you are having a romantic all-nighter together.
If you’re doing it in the bedroom, light up some scented candles or wear sexy lingerie. Men are such visual creatures that their eyes need to be stimulated first – and all the rest of his naughty body parts will follow.
Tease the Rest of His Body First before Reaching Your Target
Yes, there is such a thing as giving a handjob (pleasuring him with your hands) as the ‘main event’. When you do not feel comfortable having penetrative sex or getting down on your knees to give him head, giving a handjob is the next best thing. After setting the mood in the room, make sure to tease the rest of his body first before reaching your main target which is his penis.
Run your fingers, mouth and lips along the non-erogenous or maybe the ticklish parts of his body. When you reach to that area below his belt, rub your fingers along his thighs and work your way towards his penis.
When you finally get to his most sexually sensitive part, make sure that you have enough lubrication. Work on pleasuring the head of the penis, grab the shaft, providing up and down motions. You can even dirty talk him into guiding your hand to see just what type of stroke and pace he likes. Enthusiasm and variety is the key to giving a great handjob, and don’t forget to pay attention to his testicles.
Send Him Over the Edge to Cap Off a Great Handjob!
Finally, when he is already having an orgasm, make sure to keep the same rhythm, but ease the presure a bit. Know beforehand whether you want him to ejaculate on a sexy part of your body – perhaps your breasts – or on a piece of clothing. For men, nothing beats the feeling of knowing that the woman he’s seeing can send him over the edge simply by using her hands – so learn the techniques on how to give a great handjob (pleasure him with your hands) and keep him under your spell!
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