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Your Ultimate Guide to Pleasuring a Man: All about Handjobs

by Jessica on January 24, 2010

Your Ultimate Guide to Pleasuring a Man: All about Handjobs Your guy has been doing it to himself since he was at that age of his first sexual awareness – but he still wants your hands doing it on him as a greater turnon: the handjob (manually pleasuring his penis).  There are some women who do not like giving their man this type of manual stimulation because it seems to be a second rate means of providing sexual pleasure. However, there is a wide array of reasons why you should brush up on your handjob-giving skills.

First, during the onset of a relationship, you wouldn’t want to immediately go all the way with him – but you still want to keep a level of sexual intimacy between the two of you. Giving him a handjob (manually pleasuring him with your hands) is a great way to do just that without having intercourse.

Second, if you are already seeing each other for a long time, you would want to have variety and spice in your sex life. Handjobs can be given almost anytime and anywhere – you can even do it without taking each other’s clothes off! More importantly, mutual masturbation is a form of safe sex, so you don’t have anything to worry about while giving and receiving sexual pleasure using your hands.

How to Get a Head Start in Giving Your Man a Great Handjob

So what are the things that you need to keep in mind if you want to give your man one of the most delicious treats that he’ll ever get from you – since you will be doing all the work? Here’s a quick guide on how you can get a head start in giving your man a great handjob:

Step 1 Prior to getting him all worked up, think about whether you want to use the handjob as a part of the foreplay, after play or the main event.

Nothing turns a man on more than the sight of a woman who is ultra-sure of her sexual prowess. By having confidence in bed, you will make him feel like a sexual prey rather than having things the other way around. Remember that when giving a man a handjob (pleasuring him with your hands), it is you who is in control so decide beforehand whether you want it to become the main event, a part of the foreplay or after play.

Step 2 Make him moan by varying the speed and pressure of your strokes.

The basic stroke involved in giving a man a handjob (manual stimulation) is gliding your hands up and down his penis. Vary the pace and pressure of your strokes to make him moan in delight.

Step 3 Don’t hesitate to experiment.

To give him a mind-blowing time in bed, don’t hesitate to experiment. Use both hands to pleasure both his shaft and testicles at the same time. Or, pleasure yourself while also giving him a handjob. Ask him which strokes feel good and maintain the pressure until he reaches the point of ejaculation.

All in all, a handjob (manual stimulation of the penis) is one of the best ways to give your man the ultimate sexual pleasure without having intercourse which maintains the intimacy that you have as a couple. Brushing up your techniques in this type of sexual stimulation is a plus point for you, which will make you feel like the ultimate diva when tangling the sheets with your guy.

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